Finally posting about our Accident
Posted on July 6th, 2009 by Laura
So, here’s the story of the accident. We were going up to my mom’s house so that she could watch the kids while we went to dinner and a movie at Jordan Commons. As we were going up, Abby was screaming and unhappy and around American Fork had finally fallen asleep. I had just given Thomas some graham crackers to munch on, so Ben was looking in the rear view mirror to look at him and talk to him. When he looked back into the road, he saw what he thought was a diesel tire tread (but turned out to be a coat) in the road and swerved to avoid it. He had little reaction time, so he over-corrected. He over-corrected a few more times and we ended up hitting the middle barrier of the freeway head-on, then rolling over the passenger side and sliding to a halt.
Amazingly enough, no one was seriously injured. Both of the kids’ carseats worked flawlessly and both Ben and I were in our seat belts. Ben had a few cuts here and there and there was only 1 scratch on each of the kids. I was the one that got seriously injured. I was in quite a bit of pain from a seat belt burn on my neck. I also bruised my left breast pretty badly. My leg was also a bit bruised just below my knee and I got some cuts and glass in my feet. We’ve taken pictures of my injuries and the car. Go here to see them: Farewell Nymphadora
But here’s a preview of the car.
We were very lucky. We had a lot of protection, I know! After we rolled, my first thought was for the kids. I looked back and saw Thomas hanging from his carseat crying really hard. I reached back and managed to get him out while Ben got Abby. It was so weird to be laying on the ceiling. I had a lot of blood on my face, so I had most of the attention of the EMTs and people who stopped to help us. About 5 people stopped to help and one of them was a member of the gold cross, so he checked us over and made sure everything was ok. I’m really glad that nothing worse happened. It easily could have. Thank goodness our carseats worked perfectly and we were wearing our seat belts!
The worst thing is that we just payed off the car not 2 weeks before the accident. So, we enjoyed no car payments for not very long. We now have a Toyota Sienna van and we’re enjoying it a lot. I still miss our Avalon, though.
Thomas woke up that night from a nightmare. He said, “Car,” as he and Ben were walking to the tv. Then as they were watching George to calm Thomas down, he said, “Car broken!” He’d been saying that all night. Poor little kid. He’s been saying “Car broken!” ever since, but now there’s a new addendum. He says, “Car broken. New van!” It’s actually really cute. But we’re wondering when he’s going to forget that the car was broken and move on. It will probably be a while.
So, there you are. That’s our story. It’s a sad one.
Weirdest thing. Both my cousin and one of Ben’s coworkers passed us on the freeway. In fact, my cousin was right behind the ambulance as it pulled out with me, Thomas, and Abby inside. And I found out on Saturday that my great uncle was also driving by when it happened. Small world.
Line up!
Posted on June 12th, 2009 by Ben
So, this is nothing new, but nothing has been posted in a long time and I am suddenly feeling guilty.
Once upon a day, Thomas and Daddy were playing on the floor. Now, you may be aware of the fact that Thomas absolutely loves toy cars. You may be further aware of the fact that he has about a million of them. But I could be wrong, it may be many more.
Now, on this fine day, Daddy decided to line up a few cars next to each other. The line so straight, the curves so non-existent. Yes, this was a fine line. The play session continued, and Daddy thought nothing more of the line he had made.
Until the next day.
You see, Thomas has a mind like a steel trap. There is an ancient Uzbekistanian saying, “El elephánte remembrár etérna,” which translates roughly into “An elephant never forgets” — if the Uzbekistanians had known Thomas, that saying may well be different. The next day, Thomas lined up his cars again. But he did not stop there; no, he lined up all of his toys, side by side, trying to set a record for the longest line created by a two-year-old. And it continues to this day.
I was reminded most poignantly of this last night, as I browed through our photo gallery and stumbled upon several prime examples of this most cute behavior of his. And so, dear reader, I present for your enjoyment a collection of Thomas Trails. As you view these, keep in mind that the initial example was months (6 or so) ago, and there was no repeat performance. Also notice his conscious use of space and direction — in each row, every vehicle is pointed in the same direction, and his food is likewise consistently arranged.
This is why one must always be careful what one says (or does) around their child.